It is time for action against domestic violence


According to the story shared by a Nigerian life coach and mentor based in Georgia, Amara.
Domestic Violence
This lady just got battered by the man she calls husband. It happened in Port Harcourt, Nigeria.
Parents, aunties, uncle, nephews, cousins, neighbors, and my friends, let's all come together to say NO to DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. 
No matter what your partner say to you, believe me he or she don't deserve this from you. If a woman should shout at you as a man please don't take it to be a gender thing, just figure out what is it that you have done wrong and say sorry, because real men say sorry when they are wrong. Sometimes even when they are not, for peace to run. Same goes to some women who are also abusive. Learn to say sorry for peace to run. A relationship without trust, in my opinion, there is no need for that relationship because there is no true love but lost. Let's us all say no to domestic violence

These victims are our love ones for the sake of our kids, the futures of tomorrow.

I cannot think of anything more sickening than abusing someone you love. What state of mind do you have to be in to perceive harming your significant other as an act of affection? Violence of any form should not be accepted in our modern society, nor should it be locked away as an allowable social norm. We should be better than that.

It is our job as citizens of Africa and as human beings to change this stigma and expose domestic abuse for what it is, especially Africans Nigeria youth. Ladies and gentlemen leave an abusive relationship before you kill yourself. Up to 75% of all acts of domestic violence occur between the ages 18 to 45.

As future leaders of our society and our communities it is our duty to eradicate this insolent pest and refuse to let it become something we condone. We need to take a stand, please my beautiful ladies your life matters that's not love but lost. Leave with your lovely kids if you truly love them, if you don't they will grow up becoming a monster like their father and do the same thing to other people children. If the truth must be told the people that abuse their partners today are the result of what they saw from their parents.


Take your lovely kids, save your life and prevent your kids from being a monster so we call leave this world in a safe hands. My brothers and sisters tradition didn't say you should abuse your wives neither did it say women die there. How can somebody look at his or her partner like this and say he loves her? This is madness.

There is this madness in Africa when a lady is been abused phisically and mentally: the society sees nothing wrong with it. When women, ladies, girls are been raped they blame them for it. The police will be asking these poor girls if they didn't enjoy it, like seriously? These has to stop because is affecting our daughters psychologically, these girls can't tell their parents the horrible incident because they are scared of been bullied at or beaten up. This is what gender has caused in Africa community.
They see women as nothing, sees us like slaves. We are not slaves but human beings like men. If you love and respect Mother Earth, you should be able to love all women because we are just as lovely and important as Mother Earth. Most importantly no child should ever see domestic violence as normal, because the moment that happens a future perpetrator has been born.
The silence on violence against
women and children has been broken and now it is time for action when up to 70 per cent of women in some countries face physical and/or sexual violence in their lifetime. When one in three girls in developing countries is likely to be married as a child bride; when some 110 million girls and women have suffered female genital mutilation; when millions of women and girls are trafficked in modern-day slavery; and when women’s bodies are a battleground and rape is used as a tactic of war, it is time for action. Human rights are women’s rights, and women’s rights are human rights

The most painful part of this violence is that these so-called "men of god" encourages it, telling the women "God is not in support of divorce", that they should endure. 
That's bullshit. There is no place in the Bible that say "men beat up your wives" or "take them as your slaves".
"Men of God" also has a big role to play in this. There was a women who her husband was found of beating her up because she couldn't bear him a child, she later was fed up and wanted to leave but the pastor came in and told her to endure and pray for him. She did exactly as advised by the "man of God".
One day she wasn't so lucky as the others: she now got her two hands cut by this same husband of hers. She now divorced him with no hands. 
 
Leadership is about creating new traditions that honor the dignity and humanity of every individual. Leadership is about empowering all of our people— men, women, boys and girls, When we commit to that kind of leadership across the globe, that is when we truly start making progress on girls’ education. These are the kind of facts that still wake me up at night. Please let us all say NO to domestic violence. 

Don't say is none of your business, because you are lucky not to be in an abusive relationship. Think for your kids, your unborn kids: what is the guarantee they will be safe?
Parents please help us, your children cry out against domestic violence. Parents, don't just sit and watch someone kill your child. Protest😭#stopdomesticviolence

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